Help Everyone Live Peacefully
Stop thinking and start helping.
Helping people around is not only good for the people who need it but also for the one who does it. This helps him/her help himself/herself. This act of his/her puts him/her on a track to track down the long-trodden track. A little effort provides helper with an insight to see the unseen, feel the unfelt and hear the unheard about himself/herself. Believe you me, do it and you will feel connected and this connection of yours would cause a long-awaited meeting between you and you. In other words, this would introduce YOU to YOU and here lies the meaning and purpose of BEING. Once you get to this meaning; you start living a meaningful life, which eventually causes meaning that matters. Stop thinking and start helping. For this, tool of patience is to be used sensibly and tactfully like an expert does. Helpers cannot help even themselves if they do not have patience to deal with the nerve-breaking popped-up stuff. In my training sessions, most often I say this to my trainees “BE PATIENT OR BECOME PATIENT”. So, if you have decided to assign the role of helper to yourself; you have to be patient to ensure patience for the process involved in helping the ones who genuinely need help. A student requires help to deal with his study and exam anxiety, a couple requires assistance when a conflict between the both husband and wife is on its peak, a father needs help when he is struggling with his financial concerns and obviously a mother when she is concerned about the blame of not bringing up her children well. Moreover, an officer who could not be in good books of his senior officers requires the very help as much as a maid requires for her master. We all are helped in some or other way, yet we all do not accept it as being needy means having no self-esteem and we cannot accept this at any cost. Believe it or not, the one thinks this way needs more help. For me, help is all about “Helping Everyone Live Peacefully”. This help lies in helping yourself to help others. Mind it or mind, this is simply up to you.